Lesson 10 – The Healing Touch

As a pagan minister, Touch plays a semi-important role in my practice. From the holding of hands or touching the bare skin during a ritual. The key for us is consent. Before any ritual, healing service, or anything that requires physical touch Those involved are spoken to and explained exactly as to what will be happening.  We explain the parts of the body to be touched and make sure that all participants are comfortable with it.   This comes especially true with certain spell work and healing rituals where certain parts of the body may be exposed in order for crystals or herbal bundles to be applied. We have a long-standing rule that is non-negotiable and that is a safe word. If the person we are working with feels scared unsure, or unsafe, whatever they can say the safe word or safety signal we will stop the ritual or whatever is being done and they are escorted to a separate room with someone they trust and are made to feel safe. Later in private, we discuss what happened and find a compromise, or a different ritual or treatment altogether.  We care about consent and the well-being of out members.

Lesson 10 David Lane

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DAVID ALLAN LANE

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lesson

make it special and make it Holy,by keep it simple with a cross

course 10

since the Covid has been here for awhile its a bet that the hugs,touching in at a low.

Personally I will extend a hand if they choose to shack my hand thats up to them.

But unless the are ok with a hug they will tell you.

When Im out on an event for our CISM  calls we will extend a hand if they ask for a hug then we will give them a hug

it is better for them to ask then to do so.

But alway alway say a prayer with them there and not later.

I volunteer with a group of men and women of Christ,we sponser 2 Chapels in Beaverdam Oh

on Sunday we open up and have Church services.

One Sunday had my sermon ready to go,when services started I asked if there was anyone that would like to share their testimony,

several got up to share,so many had asked for prayer for health,so God knew what I needed to talk about was healing 

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Lesson 10

 

Appropriate Touching

I have been trained in three different disciplines, Wicca, Shamanism and Druidism.  Two of them have techniques that require touching.  I Wicca, holding hands is one and focusing energy to the part of the body that needs healing is another.  I always ask permission before I touch anyone.  Touching is usually on the third eye chakra, the sides of the head or on one of the extremities.  Touching anywhere around the privates, in my tradition is off limits.

For Shamanism, there are several techniques.  Soul retrieval is probably the most physically active where a crystal is used in the hands.  Shamanic healers must touch all parts of the body to feel for any malevolent spirits that are present.  This Spirit must be transferred to the healer, then into a crystal to be sent on its way.  Reviving the Chakras and soothing the victim is done with the hand just above the Chakras.  Then the base of the skull is touched and another point on either side of the skull.  Again, private parts are off limits.  In Druidism, healing is done mostly through prayer and ritual, I may hold the persons hands. Place my hands around the person's head or touch the shoulders.

At all times I must be aware of the person's reaction to the procedure and be prepared to stop if they feel uncomfortable.  Before I begin, I always explain the procedure.  No surprises allowed.

 

Comments About the Course

I am just starting Lesson 11.  I have found the course interesting and informative.  Lessons 1 to 5, for me were a little boring.  It was good to be aware of all the areas in which Chaplains work.  The interesting part is in the lessons I am doing now.  I am eager to learn the various techniques that Chaplains use as well as references for further study.  The assignments are useful and some of them brought up some painful memories.  I think this course is a great introduction to the work of the Chaplain and I am looking forward to the coming lessons.

Rev. Aaron Bendavid

 

 

 

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Date: Fri, Oct 9, 2020, 5:25 AM
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To: Scott Habina <scotthabina@gmail.com>, Gail Rosenbauer <lgrosenb@sbcglobal.net>

ULC Seminary Final Essay Submission for Master of 

Chaplaincy Studies 

 

 

Scott Habina 

5313 Alyse Drive 

Haltom City, Texas 76137 

 

 

While I understand that this essay is for the completion of the course study, I am submitting this as a testimony to the power of God and 

his grace. 

During my course study completion, I experienced the major loss through death of my wife and daughter in unrelated incidents. Along with many setbacks. However, this course has helped me to work through many things that I would not I would not have been able to without the grace of God.  

The course helped me work through many emotional crisis's that I would not have possessed the courage, without what is contained in the course. 

What I have learned from the material is invaluable in my life. I experienced the path and plans that I am setting my sights on.  My plan is to take what I have learned and apply it ln my life. 

I incurred invaluable information and taken to heart.  Chaplaincy at the hospital I have spent a great deal of time there recently. 

Through this study firstly I learned; remembering at what point I felt my call to the ministry.  Looking back on my life I rediscovered times when God revealed himself through my emotions, calling me to the ministry early in my life.   

We attended a little country church, my first clear memory in my life was when my mother was the leader of the ages 11 through 14-year-old boys and girls youth fellowship (Ciro).  One long weekend, a 3-day retreat was scheduled, I was permitted to attend because my mom directed the activities.  At this retreat I was moved by a sense of peace and serenity being in fellowship with others.  I felt the spirit move me, I yearned for the others to feel the same sense of peace in their lives. The memories of my time in the church was going on summer mission trips each year, to help others are some of my favorite things to do each summer.  I also loved going to Florida walking on the beach for miles, watching the sun rise and sun set, knowing God was responsible for such a tranquil peaceful and serene elements of GODS world. 

The second realization was my discovery that at this point in my life I recognize that the spirit has guided me in the life experiences and challenges have brought me back to the ministry. Without the experiences I have been through I would not be able to relate to my losses to others.  I would lack the experience or have the tools to council properly.  However, I realize that we should never stop learning and should always be trying to improve ourselves as to better serve others. 

I have discovered during this course that one of the most important skills is the development of active listening skills. I have made the sixth skill part of my daily life. I believe you never stop learning

Re: Chaplaincy Studies Lesson 19

On Sat, Sep 26, 2020, 6:40 AM Scott Habina <scotthabina@gmail.com> wrote:

   1) Tool belt and box 

        My tool belt and box are one in the same , Since I am not currently ministering I have a back pack that I take with me everywhere I go. It contains my laptop, business cards, small Bible, and a recorder.

My cellphone allows Internet and any other correspondence the needs to be made. And of course a face mask and hand sanitizer are always on hand.

 Rev. Scott

Lesson-18-Accountability#2-Personal Spiritual Care

Spiritual Self-Care Planning would begin with 1) Physical self-care- listening to the body. Since stress is experienced physically, it is important to identify where stress manifests itself in the body, routinely check vulnerable areas, and find effective ways to counter act physical stress with relaxation. A variety of methods exists, including simple breathing techniques, progessive muscle relaxation ocupressure, massage therapy, exercise, yoga, and meditation, attending to on going difficulties such as depression or anxiety and insomnia is included. 2) Emotional and Cognitive Self- Care-Express, Soothe, Release includes maximizing energizing emotions and processing grief, routinely letting it in and out of one' s life. Identifying individual emotional crying, irritability, anxiety, numbness, self- doubt, or addictive behaviors is important. 3) The key to emotional self- care is routinely expressing, soothing, releasing emotions allowing for more frequent crying may be appropriate for professionals, even if a movie or music is needed to " jump start" a good cry. Other methods include writing, creating, listening to music, talking with confidants, enjoying hot baths, being held, or cuddling a pet, aromatherapy, massage, meditation, mindfulness, prayer, gardening and cleaning offer other emotional soothing outlets allowing time to soak up joyful times and successes or engaging in pleasurable activities and humor is energizing 4) Relational Self- Care- Support, Support, Support stress responses include increased irritability, distance, or dependence. Finding those able to listen and support is critical. It is helpful to educate significant others about work stresses, when it's about work not about you and the way they can offer meaningful support. This means knowing what you need and being able to ask for it, which is often difficult for professionals. In addition self- care requires setting healthy limits in personal and professional relationships. Helpful tools include identifying warning signals of overextending, practicing setting limits, and handling conflicts by dealing directly with the person when an issue first arises, while remaining focused on solutions without blaming or personalizing. Regularly scheduled supervisory and peer sessions are vital to preventing burnout and compassion fatigue, to the extent they provide positive, constructive feedback that assists in managing emotions, maintaining confidence and self- esteem, normalizing experiences, and developing new resources and copying methods 5) Spiritual Self-Care- Tuning in to the BiggerPicture staying attuned spiritually includes reading sacred texts, praying, attending services, connecting to nature, listening to music, meditation, and engaging in creative endeavors. 6) Self- Care Is Not Optional- Since the professionals self is the vehicle for serving clients, self- care is similar to musicans caring for their instruments, an occupational responsibility, tending to the source of one's gifts results in a long career of privilege as a compassionate sojourner in many clients lives. 

Lesson-16- The Soul Friend

When I think about the word soul-friend it brings my mind to two sisters in my church who would always want to be in my company. I have prayed with them, confessed things that we couldn't talk openly to others about.you felt a trust there.no fear. We celebrated one another, encouraged and went places together.it was said that it might sound strange but I just want to be in your presence.it trully is a spiritual connection there. They would ask guestions and valued my words. I feel a special type of bond with them and it doesn't take much for them to be considered one of my closest friends and we don't have to be around each other everyday. I least expected it because I never knew this was called a soul- friend. To improve or make it better I would just be real and cherish it more and be a loyal friend. Keep doing what I'm already doing.

Lesson-15-Worship Matters

Sacred Space- Since you can't always easily travel to sacred spaces outside the home, I will develop a physical area in my home which will create a feeling of connection and serenity. My sacred space should be designed to inspire anyone entering in some way and allow them to self reflect about what they need to accomplish. So I set the mood with worship music and the aroma of essential oils that would immediately cause them to reflect on the Lord and go into a spirit of worship. I would have already satuated this sacred space with prayer. I have a bible sitting on the table with pen and paper. As they enter into my kitchen without distractions its like a mini- sanctuary which I pause and reflect daily by the window in this sacred space watching the beautiful sky and 🌳.I would feel the calming of my mind and the relaxing feeling that comes while here in my sacred space that is part of the integral of healing in my body when I might be feeling sick. Which makes my , body and spirit stronger which has caused me to be better mentally and physically in health. The mere fact that I created an altar can be helpful and comforting to know that people have a place to go to meditate and be healed and receive strength and hope in their daily walk.-------------------------.       Marriage Policy-2- Marriage is a holy covenant, a solemn agreement made by a man and a woman with each other and with God. This covenant is not something to enter without considering how it is defined by God, who created marriage. Because of these truths, we make the following requests of couples who want either to be married at________________ church or by a Pastor of_________________ church. We believe they will help you understand and enjoy the fullest benefits of the marriage covenant. Complete our church's instructions for Weddings document, and review it in detail in a meeting with the Wedding Coordinator as soon as possible. Attend a minimum of six counseling sessions with the pastor, to begin no less than 4 months prior to your wedding date. As part of these sessions you will be asked to read at least one book and complete weekly assignments. The purpose is to ensure that you learn God's plan for marriage. In planning your wedding ceremony, keep in mind that it will be conducted in a Christian setting, which will include prayer, scripture reading, and a great deal of reference to God's plan for marriage. Musical selections, vows,  poetry, dress and behavior are to be consistent with the truths about marriage outlined in the counseling sessions. Attend worship services together in this church( or your own church, if you currently attend one) at least twice a month between the date below and the wedding. The purposes for this include the following basic facts about the importance of the church: Worshipping God, fellowshipping with believers, and learning God's Word are indispensable to a truly happy life, especially in our homes and families; God, in His Word, clearly commands us to gather frequently with believers to worship Him and to be encouraged to obey Him( see Hebrews 10:24-25); and, Statistics compiled from many studies unanimously indicate that families who worship together consistently throughout their family life are less likely to experience divorce. If you have been sexually active with each other, we will expect you to refrain from sexual intercourse until the wedding. The ability to control your sexual desire is vital to a successful marriage.  if you don't govern your sexual desire before marriage, it is unlikely that you will be able to do so afterwards. Sexual purity until marriage is an investment in a fulfilled life together. The divorce rate for those who are sexually active prior to marriage is much higher than for those who refrain from sex until marriage. If you have already had intercourse with each other, now is a good time to begin exercising self- restraint and invest in your future. If you have been living together, we will expect you to change or adjust your living arrangements until the wedding. God's plan- to stay sexually pure and live apart from each other until marriage- is more successful than the way society sees it. If you want God's blessing on your marriage, we will ask you to enter the marriage covenant God's way.                 We have read this document and as an investment in the future happiness of our marriage, agree to abide by its terms.__________________Groom______________________Bride____________________________Pastor

Lesson 18 Chaplaincy Program

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Judy Dollarhite

Lesson 16 Chaplaincy Program

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Judy Dollarhite

Lesson 15 Chaplaincy Program

Hello:

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Sincerely,

Judy Dollarhite

Lesson 12 Chaplaincy Program

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Judy Dollarhite

Lesson 10

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Judy Dollarhite

Master of chaplaincy studies lesson16

MASTER OF CHAPLAINCY STUDIES: LESSON 16

In my ministry, I have more than one person as my soul-friend. However, my best soul-friend is Mr. Henri Louinis. How do we become soul-friends?
Well, Mr. Louinis and I grew up together. Even though he is 3 years older than I am, we used to do almost everything together. Playing soccer, all kinds of funny games, we ate together etc.… we're always having fun together. He used to fight for me when on the soccer field when someone hit me because I will not hit back.  I used to help him with homework. He has so much respect for me and until now he's still bragging about me. He used to defend me for anything because all my other friends used to call me the "little priest ".  I helped him find his wife. I was his correspondence, the liaison between him and his wife. They couldn't communicate without my presence.
Henri's wife's father used to be a pastor and we're all in our little community will go and play all the instruments at that church. We are still good friends in church and outside the church they're always looking for me for any problem or counselling. They trusted me, they believed in me and they even gave me more credit than I deserved. Actually, nothing can break our relationship. Is wonderful to be friends (soul-friends) for so many years. I know all their bad habits and behavior and they also know all mine.
I must say thank you to the Lord for having such a good relation for this long with this family. My soul-friends forever.
ReggieP.

Master of Chaplaincy lesson-10

Doctor Pierre

MASTER OF CHAPLAINCY STUDIES

Lesson 10-the listener.

I grew up in church and at a very young age, I was always happy to see my priest at the end of each mass go in front of the church's door to greet and give blessings to everyone especially the children. I thought that was a very good thing even though I didn't understand. But to us the priest represented Jesus every one can't wait for the priest to touch them; people will wait online until they've been touched.  On my part, I didn't really know about chaplain at that time, but believe a chaplain is an ambassador of god which I'm very excited know to called chaplain that's why this course is very important to me and as a divine person I would think is a right thing to do, because sometimes the when you pray and hold hands that send the message directly from the you and the person. We did that so much before and after worship, everyone held hands and kissed each other. It's a powerful method to transfer the blessing. Now this time things have changed because of what happened to women that push for precaution to avoid issues. I remember I went to my local community bank last year, there was a member I didn't see to greet as I always do, when I asked about this member, they told me she was sick, twisting her ankle. The following week I went back there, she was the first person to greet me by saying; hi Dr. Pierre, I replied, Hi, I was asking about you? She told me that she didn't feel any better. I asked her to tell me. She invited me to her office and showed me the swelling foot and told me that it was twisted. I asked her if I could pray with her and touch the twisted foot and she said yes. I did and next following week she called me in her office again to thank me for praying. I said to her the Lord did it and she should thank the Lord instead. Just like touching a baby to stop the crying is the same for a wife or husband, that you bring comfort to this person.

I love my chaplaincy course.

Chaplaincy Studies Lesson 16

  Soul-friend : I am grateful two already have a soul friend and my oldest son we have seen each other through many difficult issues, not one greater than the lose of my wife and mother of our children.He and I at that time leaned on each other for support and comfort. We prayed together many times after our lose and assisted each other in our grief and still do.

  I got ordained in order to perform his marriage ceremony which never came to pass,but my Soul-friend encouraged me to continue down the path of my calling to Jesus Christ.I would improve our friendship by trying to have a better understanding of the road that he is traveling and to provide all of the love and understanding that we are both missing with our lose. I would also try to find the sacrament of the present moment with him,and receive the grace he brings to me.

Rev. Scott Habina